Tuesday, August 30, 2016

Really Good James Day

It was time to get James dressed this morning and he suddenly got suspicious. Getting dressed means we're going out somewhere and we rarely go places that excite him. Well, he wasn't thrilled about today's itinerary either. In a moment of inspiration, I handed the boy 8 quarters and asked him to keep them safe for me. I put 4 in each pocket. He suddenly stood an inch taller and proudly affirmed that he was up to the task. He knows enough about money to realize that this was a big deal.

Two hours later, he still had all 8 quarters. He was very proud of himself that none had been lost. He was also in a good mood, despite having spent time in places he really didn't want to be. Once I had finished everything I wanted to do, we went to Curtis Orchard to do something he wanted to do, and we spent all 8 quarters on feeding the goats.

No wait, I should clarify. He put the quarters into the machine and caught the food pellets as they came out, but Matthew and I ended up feeding the goats. James wouldn't even get close enough to try :) We met up with some friends there and James played really well, really long, with one of the girls. He's changing, maturing, and I like to see him having fun with other kids.

It was a good morning with James.

And, I want to note here, that even though he can be a complete stinker and push everyone's buttons and drive his siblings nutso, he still responds to correction. He does change his behavior. He mocks and taunts the time outs, saying he doesn't care or it doesn't bother him, but he does tone down or stop the offensive behavior after the time out. That gives me reason to hope that it won't always be like this :)

No time-outs this morning, though. Just fun and special privileges. Some pictures from our morning:

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Love the cheesy grins.

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I didn't tell Matthew to get in the picture. He just saw James and wanted a piece of the action.

Thursday, August 25, 2016

Dreaming of the Beach

James asked when we could go to the "Lake House" again.

Yeah, that was a pretty awesome trip. What James doesn't fully understand, though, is that it was the people who made it so perfect. The delightful scenery was simply a stage to hang out with people I already really, really liked.

I would like to do it again sometime soon.

Next summer, however, will not be so laid back. I just signed up for TSA PreCheck in preparation for our trip to Disneyland next July...peak season, enormous city, way on the other side of the continent. I shrivel up inside just thinking about planning for something so, so, so out of my comfort zone. Ugh.

But, but, but, I should remember that it's the people, not the location, that makes a trip awesome. I'll be hanging out with some of my most favorite people on the whole planet. That's gotta make the shriveling up bit a little less shrivelly, right?

Yes.

I hope.

Ugh.

Wednesday, August 24, 2016

High Hopes for Preschool

James started preschool again today. We pulled into the parking lot and got out. I snuck a sideways glance at him, figuring my chances were 50/50 that he would run away screaming. Instead, he cracked a smile. A real smile. An "opening a birthday present" smile.

Whew!

He threw his backpack into his cubby, washed his hands without complaint, and got to playing. He fell right into talking with his teacher about something he found in his backpack from last year. No big whoop.

Day 1 done.

Getting James to go to Primary has become more difficult lately. Our church meets at 1pm and the kids split off about 2:15. That's James' most tired time of the day. He just wants to snuggle and fall asleep on one of his parents. It's a struggle to keep him with his class. And a struggle to keep him off my lap (I'm a primary teacher). Lately, Bobby has been taking him to the adult classes where he gets bored and falls asleep until church is over. Not ideal. At least he's okay in the adult classes for now. Come January, our church will meet at 9am. Much different! Let's hope that also means much better ;)

Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Applesauce Cake

We had a very inspiring jar of applesauce sitting on the breakfast table the other day. Alice felt compelled to create some sort of masterpiece from it...

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Double layered applesauce cake with spiced apple "frosting" made in the image of a happy family walking through a grassy field punctuated with marigolds.

It was delicious. Very moist. Seasoned well. Thank you, Betty Crocker.

Friday, August 19, 2016

Matthew-isms

Matthew loves Pop Ice, but he can't push it up on his own. Once, I was pushing his up and snuck a little bite. Robert saw me. Well, the next time Matthew needed someone to help him with a Pop Ice, Robert immediately volunteered.

A second later I hear Matthew yell an authoritative, "Hey!" and I look over to see him scowling and pointing an accusing little finger at Robert who has suddenly grown very red in the face. Yup, he had tried to sneak a bite. Matthew immediately forgave him, though, and we all laughed and laughed about it.

Alice came in a little while later wanting a popsicle of her own. We had all finished, so we were lounging about in the living room. Alice steps onto the living room carpet and Matthew runs over to her with a furrowed brow, "Odd four!" Alice immediately returns to the hard floor, as our house rule dictates for popsicle eaters. He knows the popsicle rules and isn't afraid to enforce them in his squeaky little toddler voice.

I've seen a few of his first tantrums this week, too. Almost always about leaving a place he wasn't ready to leave yet. He's the first of my kids whose arched back position really is stronger than my grip. I can't wrestle him into the buckle like I could with the others. Uh-oh

Speaking of uh-oh, Matthew counts like this, "1...2...uh-oh." Yup, he's growing up next to James. Lots and lots of counting going on around here ;)

He's asked to say the dinner prayer a couple times. He repeats one word at a time and gets all smiley proud of himself at the "amen."

His vocabulary still hasn't caught up to his desires and expectations, but his expressions speak volumes. He's got this sly little "yeeeeeeees" he does that kinda sounds like no, with one eyebrow raised and his lips in a thin little grin. He's trying to pull one over on you.

Matthew was playing with a balloon yesterday afternoon and it popped right near his face. He cried and cried, holding his cheeks. For some reason, when my kids get hurt, my first instinct is to ask them what happened. Even if I had witnessed the event (I think part of that is because I want to redirect their attention from the fear/pain and get them to focus on telling a story). Anyway, Matthew's in tears and I ask him what happened and he's patting his cheeks saying "seek" and pointing over there saying "buh-yoon" and slapping his hands down on his lap saying "bop" and "loud" and "ouchy." Then suddenly he stops crying, hops off my lap, and runs over to pick up the balloon remnant. He cries again, asking me to "wix it" "bwoh." I tell him it's hopeless, but smile and say, "Would you like to put it in the trash?" Of course he would! And he does. Then off he goes to play with something else.

In addition to practicing his jumps and falls, he's taken to running "wasss", er, uh "fast." He says, "Mama!" I look, he smiles, then tears down the hallway with that toddler hip waddle thing he does. He turns around at the end and grins, "Wassssss!" And comes back at top speed.

He's in love with all things tractor and truck and ball and baby and "tewk" (cute). He sees billboards and diaper boxes with cute babies or animals on them and asks if he can "holdit?". He tries to hold flies, too, and is often frustrated in his efforts :(

He watches his surroundings. If there's a sudden sound or someone is standing or speaking or holding themselves in a way that he finds interesting, he'll turn to me and mimic it, then smile. A friend brought her 6 week old baby to our house one afternoon and Matthew just loved mimic-showing me all the interesting things about her: o-lips, clenched fist, little squeak, eyes blinking, hand open, pouty lip, hungry squeak. He finally put his fists to his chin and declared her "deeeeewt!" (cute)

Love watching this guy come into himself a little more.