Monday, January 28, 2013

Not Cavities, Just Paranoia

Sooooooo, I took Robert to the dentist today.

No cavities.

Not one soft spot.

"These teeth are nice and hard," the kind dentist smiles at me.

"Um. Great! I'm so glad! What a relief," I reply in a forced enthusiasm that is way too loud to be real. Inwardly, I'm more than a little ashamed. Then I tell myself it's probably better to be too vigilant than too careless with one's teeth...and one's children's teeth.

So how was I fooled?!

Well, Robert's molars are pretty deep. And they're stained yellowish-orange. Ta daaaa! Problem explained.

The best news is, though, that Robert had a great time. He was chatting with the hygienist, singing for the dentist, goggling over the bright light and the pneumatic chair and the swinging pendulum clock on the wall:
Picking out a sticker and a "prize" wasn't nearly as cool to him as watching the movie playing in the waiting room. James was the perfect baby brother for this visit, staying in his car seat the whole time and playing with his red kangaroo toy. I was the only one "out of sorts" at the dentist's office today. Pbbbsh.

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Bobby's Sunday Summary

I don't have a lot to say this week.  I spent most of the week in California on Business.  I really don't like flying for 9 hours so I can attend a 9 hour meeting and then fly home again for another 9 hours.  Of course there were some breaks in there to make it last a full 4 days.

We did have fun on Monday though.  Alice had the day off of school so we had some fun that day.  We went swimming at the indoor aquatic center that afternoon.  It was nice to see the kids get more and more comfortable with the water.  We don't go too often so it always takes them a long time to get used to the water again.  But they had a really good time.  Especially Alice because she brought a friend with her and she found another friend form school already there and also her primary teacher was there with her family.  So it was lots of fun for her.

Friday, January 25, 2013

Cavities

Quick story:

Robert and I are playing with LEGOS on the living room floor this morning. James is sucking really hard on his fists and I ask him if he's going to eat himself. Robert guffaws and loudly informs me, "Ohn-ee BIG kids haf teece, Mommy! See?!"

Then he opens wide and I find myself staring at not one, not two, not three, but FOUR cavities. All four molar surfaces look scooped out and slightly orange.

My heart stops.

And then comes a flood of fear and guilt and lots more guilt.

I. did. this.

Ugh.

Robert now has his first appointment with the dentist on Monday. Let's hope I can keep my cool. And let's hope that this big kid gets to keep his hard-earned "teece."

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Bobby's Sunday Summary

This week felt like it went by very fast. Alice had Friday off from school, but I was at work so I really don't know what happened, but when I came home they were all ready to be done.

James also learned a new trick today. He is able to grab things with his hands. It is still very preliminary but he seems happy with himself.

Sunday, January 13, 2013

Bobby's Sunday Summary

This week has been a bit long.  Most of the week has been fairly normal, but we have had a few things special.  The biggest thing was the open house at the little gym.  Buddy got a little scared, and it took him a while to be comfortable enough to play.  But Alice took to it like a fish to water.



Friday, January 11, 2013

100 Days!

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, James was born exactly 990 days after Robert.

James is all sweetness. It's especially impressive that I can say that after soothing him all night through a stuffy nose and its companion: the snotty, gagging cough. Thank goodness for the Snuggle Chair, pacifiers, and a baby who can be soothed with cuddles. I'm also thoroughly grateful for the "saline solution" treatment for infant stuffy noses. Miracle! I wish I had known that trick for the last two wee babes.

He's my mellow little man and I'm grateful to have had him this long.

1 DAY

10 DAYS

100 DAYS

P.S. Both Alice and Robert are on board for nicknaming James "Tiago." Robert has even corrected me a couple times today. I think it's fitting for James to get a new name just as he becomes cognizant enough to play with us.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Bored at the FHC

James and I are working in the Champaign Family History Center (FHC) tonight. No patrons so far. I've got some time to kill and some thinking to do, so here I blog...


We call him James, James-ee, James-ee-kins, Buster, Mister, Scream-a-piller, Shaymus, Grunty, and (far too often) Robert. The nickname Bogah seems to have fallen by the wayside. I really, really, want the nickname "Tiago" to stick. It's slow in coming, unfortunately.

I dressed James in his snowsuit today and laid him on the floor for a minute. Robert came over and gave his legs a big, brotherly wrestle-hug. James bust out laughing. That made Robert laugh, too, and they played that way for a couple minutes. Robert is just beginning to show interest in James as a playmate. In many ways, we're all noticing James as a person for the first time. He smiles, he laughs, and he does it in response to what we're doing. He can be entertained by people! It's a beautiful thing.

One thing about James kinda creeps me out, though. Sometimes, when he's really tired and just about to drop off to sleep in my arms, he'll look up at me with those heavy-lidded eyes, break out this enormous smile, and instantly fall asleep. It reminds me of several death scenes in movies and (especially) opera. Did my baby just die in my arms? No. Whew.

He's also a prolific pooper. Both of my other kids would poop once a week. James is on a two-hour cycle, it seems.

After school today, the kids helped me destroy an old piece of furniture so it would fit in our garbage can. Robert had a hammer and free license to smash the heck out of something. He LOVED it...until he bonked himself...twice. After that, we decided to keep it simple with kicking and stomping. Much better. Then the kids pulled out their bikes and played outside together for the first time in a month. Outside play is its own kind of magic. I can't get enough of it. I need it as much as they do.

At dinner, Alice was chowing on the grape tomatoes. I even had to tell her to stop eating vegetables for a while and get in another food group or two.

Then this evening, Alice and Robert rediscovered our squirt bottle. It's filled with water for when the kids want to help us clean windows. They took turns squirting water into their own mouths, laughing and squealing with excitement. Then Robert accidentally shot himself in the neck, which was hilarious, and they took their little squirt-fest into the bathroom. I told them they could squirt themselves as long as they were in the bathtub with the shower curtain drawn. And squirt they did! I had to leave for the FHC and Robert ran out of the bathroom completely covered in water on the frontside (they decided together that one could only squirt oneself) to give me a goodbye hug. Even his giggly kiss on my nose was cold and wet. Then he ran back to the bathroom for more squirting.

The good days with this crazy family are pretty. darn. good.

Well, no patrons have come and we're just over halfway through the shift. James has fallen asleep. I'll blog a little about the chickens before closing the FHC early tonight:

Roo is losing her neck feathers, poor girl, and it's all my fault. I wasn't very diligent about keeping their water supply unfrozen. I was pretty neglectful, actually, and the stress of it triggered her body to begin molting her feathers. Chickens don't normally molt like this until they are 16-18 months old. She's molting 8 months early :( I don't know if the process can be stopped once it's begun. What a TERRIBLE time of year to be losing one's feathers! I haven't seen much of it in the other chickens yet, but there are an awful lot of black feathers lying around for only one chicken to be losing them. I invested in a heated poultry waterer and I'm paying much closer attention to the hens these days. They seem happier with the warmer days this week. We all do :)

My time is up. Thanks for reading.

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Mustachioed Mob

Our "Christmas Crackers" this year included paper mustaches and some of the lamest limericks I've ever composed. Ah well, I'll blame my lack of creativity on 3 months of interrupted sleep. I didn't have my camera with me this time :(  Sometimes I wonder if blurry, dark, cell phone pictures are better than no pictures at all. I have this fear (irrational?) that terrible photos will overwrite my actual memory of the event. Then again, without my real camera on me, these grainy Big-Foot-finally-captured-on-film-esque shots are the only way to share such cuteness with my family and friends:









You tell me...is your life much improved after having seen these photos? Or should I just give up on the cell phone photo efforts altogether?

Fish Curtains...DONE!

Thanks to my dear sister who took Robert's
-->hideously ugly vintage curtains away with her (look for them on eBay soon), I suddenly had a gaping window that needed attention. It was the exact motivation I needed to start the redecorating process.

BEFORE:

AFTER:



My mom made a set of brightly colored cafe curtains some time ago for Alice's bedroom in the last house. I loved the fabric for Buddy's new room, but wanted a different curtain style. I attached some royal blue fabric to make them the right length and lined them all with blackout fabric. I had to install a new curtain rod, too, because every window in this house has the track-style curtains with the drawstring thingamajig. The rest of Buddy's room is still quite neutral. I'm not fond of painting and I don't trust my own sense of color coordination, so it will likely stay blandly neutral until he punches a hole in the wall or something and I am forced to repaint :)

Alice is now feeling inspired to redecorate her room, but she's waiting for some sort of "princess reading tent" miracle that will pop out of my own sewing machine. I'm waiting for her to outgrow the princess stuff :)

Sunday, January 6, 2013

Bobby's Sunday Summary

This Alice has been home, but I have been back at work, at least the second half of the week.  So at least for me it is starting to feel more normal.  The first part of the week we had new years. We did not do anything special for new years night.  Just went to bed which was nice.  For new years day we went to a brunch that our back neighbor's hosted.  It was fun to meet and talk with more of our neighbors.

Thursday, January 3, 2013

One more smile

Dear Mom,

A bouquet of delicious James smiles heading your way, just as you requested:






1000 days!

1 day

10 days





100 days

And here he is at a glorious 1000 days:



    


That's my Buddy. A few things I don't want to forget about him at this age:
  • "Clocklet" = chocolate
  • "Sbah-berry" = strawberry
  • The rocket game: we fill an imaginary rocket with gifts for Grandma, send it off, and she sends it back to us with different surprises. It started as a game to play while Buddy was on the toilet. That's still his favorite venue for it, but we have played it almost everywhere else since.
  • When he gets hurt, he doesn't want anyone to say anything about it. Don't even TRY to empathize or you'll get a loud, "Don't talk to me!" back in your face. Then he wants me to hold him 'till he feels better.
  • "Is this a monkey bar, Mom?" his perpetual quest for bars to climb and swing on.