Brothers. So similar in some ways, and worlds apart in others. Fiercely independent creatures, though forever influenced and changing together as they grow. Tied to each other. Craving inclusion while looking for ways to remain distinct, unique, and unlike the other.
Especially these two.
Especially these two.
Even their eyes, while both blue, have different shapes. Their eyebrows set at different distances. Their inherent strengths so very different, and yet they sharpen their skills on each other...fine-tuning the exact sequence of events that will drive the other one out of the room in tears.
How does one parent both children on both sides of the conflict without accidentally making herself the mediator and judge in every single tiff that arises between them from now through eternity?! It wearies me.
*sigh*
*SIGH*
Working on it.
Watching for patterns.
Praying for insight.
Talking with love.
Counting down the days until school starts again ;) but I know it's just a band-aid. This is something much more complex than boredom. But boredom sure aggravates it!
How does one parent both children on both sides of the conflict without accidentally making herself the mediator and judge in every single tiff that arises between them from now through eternity?! It wearies me.
*sigh*
*SIGH*
Working on it.
Watching for patterns.
Praying for insight.
Talking with love.
Counting down the days until school starts again ;) but I know it's just a band-aid. This is something much more complex than boredom. But boredom sure aggravates it!


Yep, They are blessed to have you for a mom.
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